Posted on June 16, 2012
One week ago today we were floating on the Red River waiting for catfish to bite our lures. It was muggy and windy, and our Johnboat was small. Our guide had six lines in the water, and we watched them as if we were mesmerized. A little jiggle and then a great tug on the line meant we had a fish on the hook. The next task was to reel it in.
Earl did all the reeling because – truthfully – we waited a long time between bites. We were on the water four hours and caught six fish. Which meant I could keep my role as companion rather than that of secondary fisherperson.
Catfishing is markedly different from the fishing we do in northern Canada. It’s very laid back with the fish doing a lot of the work. There is no casting to speak of. In Canada, that’s all you do – hour after hour. You throw your line out; you reel it in; you throw it out; you reel it in. I’ve seen Earl sit in the front of a Lund boat and do this until no one can count the number of times.
I’m not knowledgeable enough about any of this, but I do know there is a great degree of skill in fishing regardless of whether it’s the catfish variety or the Canadian type. In the end, it’s how many fish you get in the boat.
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Posted on June 15, 2012
I love salmon; it’s one of my favorite fish. At the same time, I have been challenged in this love affair recently.
The last time I went to New York City to work for my son’s company, Earl went fishing.
For the first time in memory, he and his cohorts caught their limits. I don’t know what those limits are, but I do know that when I returned there was salmon for forty people in my freezer. At least Earl was kind enough to cut and freeze it in individual portions.
At first, I enjoyed having salmon at the ready seven nights a week. But after a while I detected that I might be growing gills; so I devised ways to share Earl’s bounty. We hosted a fishy cocktail party where I served two salmon recipes. I gave frozen servings to friends for the asking, and I kept serving it at home. Finally, Earl said he didn’t want any more.
But there were still portions to go. What to do? I asked one more friend if she could take some, and when she agreed I was left with only three pieces. I plan to eat them in the next couple days.
Of course, Earl will probably hire another charter captain and go fishing once again. He loves it that much. So would it be disloyal of me to hope he doesn’t catch his limit?
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Posted on June 7, 2012
My son Kevin has lived in Fargo, ND, almost ten years which coincides with the number of years I’ve been visiting the locale. In that time, I’ve always been struck with the abundance of great places to eat. You wouldn’t think a small town on the edge of the Great Plains would provide so must grist for one’s taste buds. But it does.
This trip Earl and I are spending about forty-eight hours before we head up the road to go catfishing. But that blog is to come. This blog acknowledged the five restaurants we ate in during the Fargo part of our trip. And, no, we didn’t cook at home once.
Last night, we ate at The Bison Turf, which is a dive bar just across the street from North Dakota State University and two blocks from my son’s house. It’s typical bar food, but you can hear the laughter of thousands of NDSU students embedded in the walls and booths. More than one couple has carved its initials in the wooden booths. I asked Earl if he wanted to carve our initials, but he declined.
Today we ate pizza at Rhombus Guys, had Guinness and free hotdogs at Dempsey’s (One of us had a free hotdog; being vegetarians two demurred; and I took a bite), and then went to a white tablecloth restaurant to celebrate my birthday with a wonderful meal at Sarello’s. (NOTE: I’ve written about Sarello’s before.) We met two other people who were also celebrating their birthdays the same night. It’s a great place, and I’ve spent more than one birthday at there.
Tomorrow morning, before Earl and I leave to go catfishing, we plan to eat at Mom’s for breakfast. My son says Fargo is not a breakfast town in the same way as the Twin Cities or Chicago is. He decries that there are maybe two restaurants at most that offer great egg fare. Or offer it all day. Since breakfast is Earl’s favorite meal, we’ll do a taste test ourselves. And regardless of the verdict on Mom’s, we’ve eaten ourselves through quite a bit of what Fargo has to offer. And I haven’t taken a single Tums®.
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Posted on June 6, 2012
Today’s off-road experience was tracking down buffalo. (Just a note: The real name of this North American animal is bison.)
We were driving along I-94 about sixty-five miles south of our destination in Fargo, ND, when Earl spotted a herd of bison casually eating the grass on the east side of the highway. Immediately after that we saw a sign that read “Buffalo for Sale.”
Now we are bison aficionados, having made more than one trip to a bison ranch in Indiana, having eaten it and slept under its hide (very warm), and currently planning a trek to Yellowstone National Park to commune with them. Additionally, the skull of a female bison hangs in Earl’s office. It is a thing of beauty.
So we headed for the next exit in search of the advertised buffalo. We can’t afford to buy one; our condo docs forbid anything over the weight of an average dog. But we could at least pay our respects.
Which we did. Although there were no directional signs, luck provided us with the right road. And when we came to the end of it, the bison were there. Being courteous intruders, we found someone to ask if we could walk to the fence and see them close up. Permission was granted.
I’m not sure if it was my paisley sweater or just the fact that we were unfamiliar faces, but the bison began to close ranks and move away from the fence. We hastened our gait, but they hastened theirs too. A new mother with her offspring went cantering over the hill and out of sight. The others moved a distance away.
Regardless, we got to see them relatively up close and personal, which is all you want to do. Bison are not pettable or predictable. They are not at all interested in human friendship. Rather, they are majestic beasts that played a significant role not only in the development of our country as it is today but also in the development of what it was before Western European explorers showed up. And . . . they’ve inspired more than one song.
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Posted on June 5, 2012
When we take road trips, Earl and I have difficulty going from Point A (for instance, our home) to Point B (our destination) without wandering off the highway. I don’t mean we’re a traffic accident waiting to happen; I mean if we see something that piques our interest, we leave the Interstate and go off to see it. Today was no exception.
Cruising through Wisconsin, we spied a billboard near Edgerton that advertised “The World’s Largest Culver’s.” We looked at each other, and suddenly Earl got a craving for the frozen custard the fast food chain is famous for.
Since Culver’s — like most fast food restaurants –has a similar floor plan regardless of whether you’re ordering in Biloxi, Mississippi, or Brisbane, Australia, we wondered how big this one was. The Culver’s back home isn’t that overwhelming.
We knew what we had to do. When the correct exit came up, we signaled our intentions and left the highway. Less than half a mile down the road was the Culver’s in question. It looked large, but not humongous. What did look humongous was the parking lot; and almost every space was taken! That WAS impressive.
We got into the drive-through lane and debated what to order. An invisible voice said, “Welcome to the World’s largest Culver’s.” We looked at each other. There’s something to be said for local pride.
In the end, we got the world’s smallest cup of frozen custard to share.
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Posted on June 2, 2012
It’s the second of June, but it feels like the end of September. We should be used to these weather changes by now, because the end of February felt like the middle of July. So maybe it IS the middle of September already.
I only know I have no control over the temperature. I can check online for the daily temperature highs and lows, and I can dress accordingly. But I cannot change the actual forecast, because I have no dominion over clouds or rain or hail. I only have dominion over my feelings and behavior toward these occurrences. And I’m not very good at that either.
Which means I will probably sulk the next couple days. The predictions are not particularly sunny, and I don’t have a lot of energy for negative weather analysis. Rather I’m in the “Camelot” mode. This means that I believe rain should only fall after sundown and that by 9 AM the sun must appear. Anybody out there feel the same way?
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Posted on June 1, 2012
This blog is really about music. My adult study of piano in particular. It’s not going so well at the moment. I’m frustrated almost to the point of putting an ad for my Kawai grand piano in the local paper and calling it quits.
Recently I shared this mood with my piano teacher, who neither tried to talk me in or out. Instead, she sent me to a wonderful website, www.musicalfossils.com, the brainchild of Matthew Harre, a teacher with an amazing philosophy about the reasons adult piano students struggle.
He nailed them all, from wanting to play perfectly to not being spontaneous to physical tenseness and its result on the music involved. I’ve spent the past week reading his point of view and am beginning to equate music with my writing.
It’s all about the editor.
When I write I just put little black marks on a computer’s sheet of paper. I don’t think about what they really say. I just “play.” Later I go back and revise. But when it comes to piano, I never allow myself to just play the notes as if they were a first draft of an essay. I revise, edit, critique as I go.
It’s something to think about: Letting the music flow and not caring about the missed sharp or the wrong fingering. Playing as if it were a first draft. Revising later. After all, as Mr. Harre notes (no pun intended), who counts the wrong notes in a concert?
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Posted on May 12, 2012
I just learned that Maurice Sendak died this past week. He who created Where the Wild Things Are and other children’s stories was a staple at bedtime when my children were growing up.
The story of Max, who was sent to bed without supper and embarks on an amazing journey but still returns in time for a still-warm meal his mother brings to his bedroom door, abides in my memory. Even if my children have forgotten, I still have copies of this Sendak classic in both English and French on my bookcase. It doesn’t matter that the French retitled it Max and the Maxi-Monsters.
Some said Sendak’s monsters were too awful, ugly, repugnant. But I don’t know a child who didn’t love them. And what did it matter, when Max turns out to be the biggest monster of all? Wouldn’t any child like that role over imaginary demons or haughty parents?
Sendak wrote other children’s stories, but Max was his most beloved character. I choose to believe that the author was writing something autobiographical. So I salute Max and Maurice Sendak and plan to re-read Where the Wild Things Are regularly. Please join me, and we’ll revel in the wild rumpus that is the heart of the story. What better way to remember the author.
Posted on May 10, 2012
I’ve been thinking that my tech woes might not be behind me. Sure, I’ve purchased a new computer and have managed to retrieve all my files. Sure, my website has returned and I’m receiving emails regularly.
But what about my wireless router, which – if I understand things correctly – is my connection to the company that provides my Internet access? What if it goes down? Or becomes obsolete, as a router in my distant past actually did.
I suspect that, once again, I will feel stranded and will have to call Comcast, which provides my Internet access through this little router box. Knowing Comcast, I will be assigned a date on which a technician will appear. But it won’t be tomorrow or at any other time that is convenient to me.
Maybe I’m becoming a pessimist with all these computer concerns. But then maybe I’m becoming wiser and planning for the future. In either case, I’m certainly more aware of how connected we have become on a virtual level.
We used to just pick up the telephone and talk to the person on the other end. We shared jokes, we solved problems, we made dates. Now we have email trails. Back then we put our appointments in a calendar and simply showed up at the appointed time. Now we dicker back and forth, changing times and locations on a whim. We even have reminders on our computerized calendars that tell us what to do fifteen minutes from now. Back then, that would have required too much erasing.
I know we’ll never return to the “Time before Internet,” but I wish we could at least recapture some of its simplicity.
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Posted on May 9, 2012
After three weeks, I’m finally back up and running. Or back up and online. Running has nothing to do with it. And the operative phrase is “back up.” As in, returned to a previous live status.
My old computer bit the dust and took nine days to be replaced by a new computer that was obviously smarter than I. I hired a tech guy to get my old files off the dead machine and then struggled to find them. I was about to turn the corner when my website went down. The problem with this is that I receive email via my own website instead of Yahoo or Gmail or some other public site.
So even though I had an up-to-date computer, nothing was getting through to it because my website went AWOL. When you live on the Internet, being offline is very frustrating. I fretted and fumed, called my tech people and whined, waited for responses. In the end, my website returned and my emails came through. Now I’m finally back to square one.
Except . . . how can I prevent a nine day hiatus from happening again? Granted a new computer should offset some of this concern, but it seems I’m still at the mercy of other tech people who manage my website. It makes me think snail mail wasn’t so bad after all.
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