Posted on January 18, 2012
Two days ago I saw Dr. R, the oncologist who’s monitoring my progress after having surgery for ovarian cancer a year and a half ago. I am one of the lucky few who were diagnosed so early that I didn’t need chemo or radiation therapy. Mine was called Stage 1A cancer. That said, I still have to go for testing every three months to make sure nothing changes.
Ovarian cancer is scary, because it has no symptoms. By the time it is discovered it has more often than not run rampant in a woman’s body. This makes me doubly lucky, since mine was discovered at such an early stage. And if the next battery of tests is good, then I get to move to six month visits with my oncologist.
According to the American Cancer Society, the five-year survival rate for Stage 1A cancer is approximately 94 percent. Even so, it’s weird to have one’s future doled out in various increments, and my visits with Dr. R always remind me of the tenuous nature of life.
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Posted on January 17, 2012
Winter has arrived, and with it a tendency to hibernate. Today was so miserable that I hardly ventured forth. Instead it made me think about the phrase, “It ain’t a fit night out for man or beast.” W.C. Fields made this famous.
But what did this mean a hundred or two hundred years ago? Perhaps those hardy families stoked their fires as best they could, sat by their fireplaces until the embers died and then crawled under covers made of down. Maybe they played games in the evenings or turned to reminiscing. Or possibly playing the fiddle. It was a simpler time.
Now an evening that ain’t fit for man or beast most likely includes watching TV, surfing the Internet, and maybe sitting by a fire. But not one that is the sole source of heat for the home. (See paragraph above.) I suspect it doesn’t include much reading or doing crossword puzzles or any other activity that is particularly solitary. Instead perhaps it includes Netflix or On Demand or Tivo.
Even though the activities have changed, it’s still gratifying to know how to deal with a night not fit for man or beast.
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Posted on January 15, 2012
Many people have bulletin boards where they attach items of interest, invitations, recipes, you-name-it. I’m not one of them. Instead, I use the door to my at-home office for that purpose.
It started innocuously about twelve years ago when I received a magnet that looked like a tiny blackboard on which was written in white “chalk” the following quote by Oscar Wilde. “Life is too important to be taken seriously.” At the time, our refrigerator (another object people use to post things) was stainless steel, and the magnet wouldn’t stick.
So I taped it to my office door and reviewed its sentiment regularly as I came and went. When we moved two years ago, I left the old door behind but brought the magnet to tape to a new one. It was quickly joined by a housewarming card my son sent, which was – in turn – joined by a postcard from The Netherlands sent by my other son and then two more from his various European travels. These “Favorite Five” are constant, while other pieces of paper come and go.
Currently they include the instructions for cleaning the rubber floor we installed in our garage (although I have never cleaned it), a coupon for dental floss that is about to expire (need to move on this one), a newspaper article on the Gilmore Car Museum in Hickory Corners, Michigan (This is in deference to Earl’s interests), and a quote from Chief Joseph who led his tribe, the Nez Perce peoples, on a 1400 mile march to avoid conflict with the U.S. Military in the late eighteen hundreds. (We’re on the lookout for some piece of art representing this man who said, “I will fight no more forever.”)
There are the usual receipts, a recipe for Chophouse Salad, and a list of books I might like to read. Also a quote from True Value for the price of a Culligan water filter, the telephone number of the local health care center, and a note that the lady next door owes me $107 for tulip bulbs. It’s an eclectic assortment of bits and pieces, and I actually enjoy looking at them almost as much as I enjoy looking at some of our finer artwork.
Well, maybe with the exception of last October’s bill for the tulips.
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Posted on January 14, 2012
Ludwig von Beethoven and I are friends on some level, although I’m not sure which one. I just know he haunts me in terms of my piano development. So I’ve returned to his “Moonlight Sonata” in an attempt to cull its many mysteries and reconnect with the composer.
I first attempted the Sonata about three years ago. I loved it then; I love it now. And I hope that what I’ve learned in the interim will enable me to play it better and make Beethoven proud.
That first time around it took me a year to dissect the nuances of the work; this time I hope to do it in three months. If muscle memory is indeed a fact, I should be fine. That said, I think I’ve also earned the right to complain.
The thing is “Moonlight Sonata” is not a rote piece of music. By that I mean that almost every measure has some change in the notes, whereas other music tends to repeat notes and chords. This means that Beethoven’s work requires more attention to detail, more scrutiny to note changes in a measure, more mental acuity. Which is why three months for a review is not unreasonable.
I just want to put Ludwig on notice that the next time I review his work, I plan to do it in record time.
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Posted on January 13, 2012
It’s Friday the Thirteenth, and this morning we woke to the first snow of the winter. (I don’t believe there is a correlation.) The weather forecasters were predicting several inches of the stuff, but in reality we probably got just enough to make driving hazardous.
Usually we’ve had at least a foot or two by now, and drivers have gotten their “sea legs” in how to handle themselves. But this year was different. Autumn lingered; and when Winter finally arrived, she showed as little interest in freezing temperatures and blustery winds as Earl does all the time. Humans enjoyed this respite, but the trees and plants were confused. Some even started to bud, apparently thinking Spring was on its way.
Today cured everyone and everything of that notion. The pond in front of our home is the color of antifreeze, and everything else around it is clad in white. The forecasters are saying night temperatures will drop, and it will remain cold for several days.
I think it’s time to get out the real boots, the full length coat, and the extra gloves. Or maybe just hibernate at home.
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Posted on January 12, 2012
I have a new friend named Mephisto. No, it’s not a dog or a cat. It’s not even alive, unless you think computers have lives of their own. Mephisto is a computerized chess game.
It’s better than playing chess on one of those Internet websites, because there is a way to take back a move. This might seem like cheating, but I find it’s helpful in the learning process. When Mephisto’s bishop takes my queen because I wasn’t watching where I moved her, it could signal the start of the end of the game. So I hit the “Take Back” button and that play is reversed.
I don’t hit “Take Back” every time Mephisto captures one of my pieces; we’d never finish a game. At the same time, I moved my queen without thinking it through, and I wanted to see what would happen if I moved something else instead.
My Uncle Dick said recently that chess is lost by the person who makes the most mistakes. I just don’t want to make obvious ones. And, for the record, Mephisto has won more times than I have.
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Posted on January 9, 2012
Yesterday we removed the last of the Christmas decorations and stowed them for the next eleven months. Just as it’s fun to see the tree emerge and my snowmen collection follow, it always feels good to return our home to its pre-decorated condition. For every time there is a season . . .
Now we’re returning to our normal routine. Earl went to Bible study this morning at the crack of dawn; I returned to piano lessons at a more reasonable hour. I checked the scale to see if my New Year’s resolution of losing seven pounds had started to take effect. I also began to collect data for our upcoming income tax preparation, while Earl updated his calendar with various events. It was a most mundane day.
Perhaps that’s one thing that makes the holidays special. They’re a diversion from our usual routines. They can also be added work if those routines are stress-filled and over-scheduled in the first place. But this was not the case for me this year.
I quit my job in late July, a job that I loved but which was unusually stressful in December. So this was the first year in memory that I didn’t squeeze holiday preparations around my work. In many ways, they became my work. I visited with old acquaintances (not referring necessarily to age here), took time to reminisce, enjoyed a homemade fruitcake from a dear friend, saw another friend I hadn’t seen in a few years, enjoyed every moment without feeling fatigue. It was wonderful.
Because I enjoyed it fully, I’m not sad about putting the holiday away. Rather, I’m rejuvenated. I look forward to the routine, because for the past four weeks I didn’t have to tend to it.
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Posted on January 6, 2012
I find words and sentences and paragraphs everywhere. They could be about a sunset or a political rally or a book I’m reading. They could complain or compliment or merely comment. But I never have a problem coming up with something to write.
Is this the way it is for most writers? That writing is similar to breathing in that it’s done automatically. That it’s part of the fabric of one’s being. I think so, although I have no empirical evidence.
I do know that if I don’t write on a regular basis, I feel out of sorts. Not surly, but definitely less fulfilled. So, not only am I back to blogging regularly, I’m also declaring 2012 “The Year of the Query,” a query being that initial contact with agents and publishers in the hope one of them loves your work and wants to help publish it.
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Posted on January 3, 2012
Iowa has its day tonight. Iowans go to their caucuses and will be the first in the nation to publicly proclaim whom they want to run against the President next fall. Previously this “honor,” if you will, traditionally went to New Hampshire. But in the past couple elections, there has been much jockeying to be the first state to hold a primary. And, since every state in the nation has one, this jockeying continues until Utah holds its own on June 26, 2012.
By then it’s possible that what Iowa decided won’t mean much.
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Posted on January 2, 2012
Winnie the Pooh does not have a lock on blustery days, although his are more famous than mine will ever be. Regardless, today was blustery personified, and Earl and I hibernated. We didn’t get out of bed until after 9 AM, and then we didn’t leave the house all day. It was most unusual.
We watched the swirling snow from our windows, enjoyed the lights on our Christmas tree for one last time, and watched the Rose Bowl Parade. I took a nap, as if sleeping late didn’t satisfy me.
Tomorrow the world returns to normal with traffic jams, mail delivery, and forecasts of more snow. I’ve already got my gym bag packed to head to the swimming pool; I’ve got deposits to make at the bank; and I’m going to start on our income taxes.
Which is why a blustery day is a good thing.
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