?`s and ANNEswers

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What to Say

I’ve watched the inauguration of President Barack Obama most of the day: the oath of office, his speech, the parade, the analyses. Now I’m getting ready to watch coverage of the official inaugural balls this evening. It’s almost too much to absorb.

If I feel this way, and I’m among the privileged white class in America, I can only imagine how others feel. Time after time today television commentators queried attendees, mostly black, and asked how they saw this day. The standard response was that the person never dreamed to see an African-American President in his or her lifetime.

Never dreamed . . .

Even though we’re taught that anyone in this country can achieve a dream. That anyone can better his or her situation. That anyone can grow up to be President. John F. Kennedy demonstrated that Catholics could become President, but it was left to Barack Obama to demonstrate that people of a minority race could also become President. How democratic is that?

Today I listened to the common man, to various commentators on different TV stations, and to the words of Barack Obama himself. What is there left to say? Yet, in the spirit of adding to collective memory, I recall my own slight connection with the Civil Rights Movement. It occurred in 1958, when my Mother and I moved to Little Rock, Arkansas, just after the then-Governor Orville Faubus stood in the doorway of Central High School and refused a federal mandate to integrate by denying nine black students the right to attend school there. Ultimately, all city schools were closed rather than attempt desegregation.

My Mother and I were Northerners, and we quickly learned how it was in the South. We learned to be careful too. To this day, I remember visiting the most prosperous retail store in downtown Little Rock, using the women’s restroom, and coming out of it to find a water fountain that read “For Whites Only.” It stunned me. I also remember that black people automatically walked to the back of the bus, that the Catholic school I attended didn’t accept blacks — and didn’t have to because it was a “private” school under the law — and that there were only certain jobs open for them.

But the most stunning revelation was that my Mother’s opinion and my own were considered offensive, even anathema, heresy. To accept blacks was to invite acute criticism. In fact, my Mother was legally required to submit a list of organizations she belonged to or had contributed to so that she could maintain her job with the University of Arkansas. She believed it had to do with making sure employees had not contributed to the NAACP. Shortly thereafter we moved north again.

Obama’s inauguration makes our slight travails even less significant. During my brief time in the South, I learned that racism was alive and well in the mid-sixties. Today I learned that, even though it’s taken over forty years — and racism is still alive and well in many places in our country — I believe Obama’s election draws us closer as a nation and quite possibly works to erase racial discrimination forever.

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Tuning In

So far I have missed most of the pre-inaugural hoopla that occurred over the weekend. It wasn’t for lack of interest; rather it was for lack of being able to learn when various activities were televised. Our local newspaper has the annoying habit of offering an abridged version only of the evening’s programming. So if you don’t watch TV regularly — like I don’t — and catch the constant promotion of upcoming programs it’s hard for them to come on your radar.

This morning, for instance, I learned from two different friends that HBO had a wonderful concert last night. But I spent the evening reading. Not such a bad alternative, but it did point out that I need to be a little more pro-active if I want to see Obama take the oath of office in real time and not just on the evening news. I was about to Google® something like “television schedule for the inauguration,” when Earl gave me a quick lesson in how to use the “Guide” feature of our TV. I watch it so rarely, I didn’t even know you could do this. But, sure enough, programming for a couple weeks is right there under your nose with the press of a button on the remote.

Now I’m ready for tomorrow’s dawn to dusk coverage of the inauguration, the parade, and the ten official balls that President and Mrs. Obama are attending. I’ve got one other essential ingredient ready too. That would be my ironing board, and I predict I’ll be completely caught up by bedtime.

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So Much Has Happened

It’s been a while since I blogged and today I’m catching up. I don’t know where this week went. I spent most of it battling snow and ice so that I could get to various appointments. This meant taking several turns as Shoveler First Class, although I do have help with our circular driveway. His name is George, not Earl. It also meant bundling and unbundling outer clothing, depending on whether I was going in or out of a store or the health club or my piano lesson.

When I wasn’t thinking about snow survival, I watched the first couple episodes of season eight of “American Idol.” Enjoyed them a lot. I watched President Bush’s farewell speech; didn’t really enjoy that so much. And I watched “Cash Cab,” that crazy show located in New York City where a cabbie offers money for right answers to trivia. None of these programs has anything in common. President Bush is not, at the moment at least, an American Idol; and the cabbie in “Cash Cab” can’t fix our economic mess, even though he brightens a passenger’s evening by not charging for the ride.

Then there was yesterday’s plane landing (Official term is “ditch.”) in the Hudson River off midtown Manhattan. No one died. And the earlier week’s bombing in Gaza. Many people died. And the cabinet hearings on Capital Hill where it looks as if all candidates will survive.

Now it’s Friday night, and I’m tired even though I hardly do as much work as so many others I know. I plan to write a couple other blogs on various recent newsworthy situations and call it a day. I’m blessed that I’m at the age I can do this. G’night.

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Sully

This morning I flipped on the TV while I washed my face, brushed my teeth, curled my hair, and made our bed. Everyone was talking about Chesley B. “Sully” Sullenberger, III, the heroic captain of US Airways flight 1549, who ran into double engine trouble, landed his airplane in the middle of the Hudson River, and got all passengers off alive. After that, according to reports, he walked the plane’s length twice to make sure nobody else was on board before claiming the title of the last person to leave the sinking craft.

I had watched the news unfold yesterday, and every time the story was told tears welled in my eyes. How many times do airline landings or crashes or whatever other problems end in the same way? I bet none come to mind offhand. Sully is a hero.

But what attracted me almost as much was that one of the commentators on the show I was barely watching this morning(Can’t even remember the name.) made a comparison between President-elect Obama and Sully. He said that Obama is in the precarious position of having to make snap decisions, altering a dangerous course, alerting his passengers, and setting the craft called the United States down in turbulent conditions while saving all parties on board.

Maybe Obama should contact Pilot Sullenberger for advice.

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Less than Forty-Eight Hours, Part 2

In less than forty-eight hours, the incumbent President will leave the White House for the last time while the newly inaugurated President will begin his term of office. Even though this happens every four or eight years, each departing and arriving seems different.

President-elect Barack Obama’s journey to become President soon ends as he takes the oath of office for the highest position in the land. It remains to be seen how he does once he’s actually installed in office; and the skeptics among us are holding their collective breathe. At the same time, how can we deny the joyousness of the day?

Some may argue that Obama is not an African American but a mixed-race President. I see that point of view, but I also see that Obama categorizes himself as African-American. Given this country’s contentious relationship with African Americans, why would Obama choose to identify himself as one unless he felt he was? (I know, I know; some believe in political expediency. Regardless, so be it.) Which means Tuesday’s inauguration is the first of an African-American, one who has risen rapidly and charismatically, somewhat like another candidate in an era where being a Roman Catholic was considered a disadvantage.

I plan to watch a lot of the activities in Washington live next Tuesday. I want to see the swearing in, the parade, even the official — and maybe an unofficial or two — balls. The next day, however, I want to see President Obama get down to work to resolve some of the issues that person formerly known as President Bush didn’t even address in his farewell speech.

It will be tough.

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Less than Forty-Eight Hours

In less than forty-eight hours, the incumbent President will leave the White House for the last time while the newly inaugurated President will begin his term of office. Even though this happens every four or eight years, each departing and arriving seems different. A lot has to do with what the incumbent did or didn’t accomplish in his years in office. Even more depends on what the public thinks about those accomplishments or lack of.

Last night George W. Bush gave his official farewell address to the nation. I watched it in real time and then saw it again in its entirety later in the evening. I can’t say I gleaned anything new in either viewing. President Bush stuck to what has been his main theme since September 11, 2001. He talked about how our country is safer because of his tackling the “hard” decisions, how democracy is thriving elsewhere, how it’s our job to make sure it does thrive. He spoke of Afghanistan and how women are now being allowed to attend school there. (Forget the fact that some women have had acid thrown in their faces for trying.) He spoke of Iraq and called it a budding democracy in the Middle East. (Forget the fact that the country has lost thousands upon thousands of its citizenry to this democracy).

He didn’t mention the economy, which is certainly in a severe slump, or New Orleans, which has certainly not recovered. He didn’t mention Gitmo or “Mission Accomplished.” Or Scooter Libby. I honestly didn’t expect him to. In fact, I’m willing to acknowledge that a farewell speech attempts to end on a high note.

The only thing is that Bush’s speech sounded like revisionist history to me.

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What Time Is It?

We have twelve clocks in our house, which means we have no idea what time it is. This clock says one thing, that clock says another, a third clock has a mind of its own. In fact, there is one clock that doesn’t even work at all, but is correct twice a day. What it all means is that we merely have a guesstimate as to the correct time.

Earl occasionally tells me I should time all the clocks to a cell phone, since it seems to have the most accuracy. So a couple times a year I go from clock to clock and do that. I bring my cell phone along and set each of the twelve to the hour and minute as well as I can. But they have minds of their own.

Why do we have so many clocks when they don’t coordinate? Well, some of them are decorative; others are more functional. The decorative ones include several gifts from friends and family that have sentimental value; the functional ones are attached to fancy ovens and microwaves and coffee makers. And neither the twain shall meet.

I’ve handled the situation by choosing one of the twelve clocks to be my guide. I follow it and disregard the others. If my chosen clock says it’s five o’clock, then I take it as fact. I don’t check it out with the other eleven, or else I might go crazy. And that’s how I know what time it is. As I post this, it is 9:03 PM on Sunday, January 11, 2009.

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Book Club

I’d heard about book clubs for years, but had never actually joined one until last year. I’m not even sure why I agreed to join then, but I did; and it’s been a revelation.

The upside is that the women in this club are all erudite. They have experiences to share. So we don’t spend time discussing our aches and pains (and many of us are at the age where that could be a prevalent discussion); we don’t spend time whining about other things either. At the same time, we don’t always spend a lot of time discussing the assigned book.

At first, I was dismayed because I wanted to talk about the book, its literary quality, its structure, its message. But as time has passed, I’ve learned that a book club may or may not be focused on the book. And I’ve learned it doesn’t matter, because whatever the topic of conversation this group of women has a variety of opinions, all of which are well grounded. I may not have gotten additional insights into the assignment at hand, but I always come away with insights of one sort or another. Maybe, after all is said and done, that’s the real purpose of a book club.

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Back to the Future

Tomorrow marks the true return to reality, even though I’ve alluded to it these past couple weeks. I noted when Christmas was over and when all became calm. I acknowledged my friends and noted my foray into holiday sales. But tomorrow is different.

Tomorrow the world really returns to its regular regime. The stock market opens on an up note, but whether it remains in positive territory is a well-guarded secret. Weather forecasters decline serious commitment, while newscasters attempt to charm us. And in sixteen days our country will see the passing of power from a Republican to a Democrat. It’s quite an omen for the New Year.

There was once a movie called “Back to the Future,” starring Michael J. Fox. It was about time travel to the past and how Michael’s character could or did impact the future by having landed unwittingly in the past. It made me think that in some way we are all unwitting participants in events beyond our control. We try our best, but it might not be adequate.

So tomorrow, as I return to my usual schedule, I think I’ll contemplate the vagaries of life. I’ll buckle into a routine, since I’m a pretty routine person; but I’ll try to recognize that some things are simply beyond our control. Regardless, I need to get back to the present.

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I Shopped till I Dropped

Today Earl’s daughter Adaire and I shopped . . . and shopped . . . and shopped. If ever there was a marathon clothing event, this was it. We left at ten in the morning to hunt for bargains, track down a couple jackets, and generally spruce up my winter wardrobe, which hadn’t been spruced in maybe three, four years. In the meantime, I’d lost a few pounds, toned up, and looked lost in my current out-of-style wardrobe.

Adaire is a pro at shopping, while I’m only a novice. In fact, I don’t even like to shop for clothes, so she was the perfect person to help me. In the first store we encountered, we devised a system where she would roam the racks grabbing jeans here or tops there, while I headed to camp out in the dressing room. Then she would bring her items to me, and I would try them on as fast as I could. It was power shopping at its best. In the end, we walked out of the Gap with an incredible array of clothing, most of which was on sale.

Seven hours — with time out for lunch — and five stores later, I was the owner of an entirely new winter wardrobe without having gone into too much debt. I had also tried on more clothes in one day than I probably wear in a month. And I’d learned a thing or two about today’s fashions as well. But the best thing I learned was that having someone along who really likes clothes and knows what goes well together makes all the difference. So thanks, Adaire. You’re the best!

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