Posted on October 27, 2024
Tonight is my monthly book club where six of us in different locations meet via Zoom and discuss the selection one of us picked to read and review. It’s always interesting.
The thing I like most about this book club is that we actually talk about the book. At times it’s a brief discussion; other times it takes about an hour. Either way, it’s about the book and not about being a therapy session for the attendees.
I’ve got nothing against therapy sessions, but if I’m in a book club I want to discuss the book. The plot. The characters. The point of view. The quality of the writing. The realism or the fantasy.
In this club, we rate the book on a scale of one to five after we’ve discussed it. In all the years we’ve been together, only two books have ever rated a five. They were A Gentleman in Moscow and Anne of Green Gables. Go figure.
As for the name of the club, GBC stands for Great Book Club, although we usually call it by its nickname, the Buddy Book Club, after one of the founding members.
I rate the entire experience a five.
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Posted on October 26, 2024
Item #1: On October 22, I wrote, on what I thought was good authority, that white rapper Eminem was endorsing candidate Trump for President. But then I saw that he was at a rally in Detroit to introduce Barack Obama as a speaker. And that he actually endorsed Harris for the job.
As a person committed to facts, I went back to my various sources to find where I got the wrong information. Misinformation is what they call it, and it is different from disinformation in that the people who are misinformed are capable of admitting it and acknowledging their mistakes.
I stand corrected.
Item #2: A column by Heather Cox Richardson makes it clear that the Jeff and Elon Show is about power, control, and money. I have never been a fan of either of these multi-billionaires. I could spend the rest of this blog explaining why, but Heather does it far more eloquently than I can. Go here if you’re interested.
Item #3: My friend P and I have a literary bargain. She gives me The New Yorker in exchange for the Sunday New York Times book review section. Imagine my surprise when the August 19, 2024 issue of The New Yorker was called “An Archival Issue” and featured various literary friends from the past interspersed with news of the present. I felt quite at home.
Pauline Kael was an arts critic, and her contribution to this issue was a review of the film “Funny Girl,” featuring Barbra Streisand, that debuted in 1968. She wrote for the magazine 24 years.
Ogden Nash contributed his quirky verse to The New Yorker for more than 40 years. The poem selected for this edition is called “So That’s Who I Remind Me Of” and was first published in 1942.
Then there are cartoons by Charles Addams, a poem from Phyllis McGinley, and a comic strip by Art Spiegelman, author of Maus. Zadie Smith, Ian Frazier, and Lillian Ross also show up.
This is probably boring to anyone who doesn’t recognize these names. For me, however, it’s an antidote to today’s rancor over the election. I’ll probably look for other outlets for such comfort between now and November 5.
How about you?
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Posted on October 25, 2024
Three days ago I mentioned that I have covered election seasons on this website since 2004, and I provided a blog from that year. This morning I took my mail-in ballot directly to the township hall – not because I don’t trust the USPS – because I was going by there anyway.
So I’m done with this year’s ads, requests for money, discussions with friends, opinionators, and the candidates themselves. But it doesn’t mean I’m done with the process. With that in mind, I’m repurposing a blog from the 2008 season for your consideration.
November 5, 2008
Where is Alma Jones?
When I was in grammar school, there were two African American students in my grade: Alma Jones and Gabrielle Jacquet. I didn’t spend a lot of time playing with either girl, as I had my own circle of friends; and pre-teens were a cliquish bunch even back then.
But I thought of Alma and Gabrielle this morning as I rang up my dear friend Carol, who shares my memories from that era. She also shares my political point of view today.
Of course, we were both excited that Barack Obama had won the Presidency. We’d talked about this for months; watched TV shows; devoured reading material; and kept our fingers crossed. We listened to debates and participated in a few ourselves.
Carol and I are of the age that literally grew up in the years where African Americans were called Negroes and sat in the back of the bus. As young adults we witnessed the strikes and marches of the civil rights movement. To this day, we remember exactly where we were when President Kennedy was assassinated. And when Dr. Martin Luther King was too.
So even though both of us are white, we were filled with emotion about seeing an African American attain the highest office of our land because for most of our lives this was not possible. “I wonder where Alma Jones is,” I said to Carol. She knew what I meant.
My sharing of ancient blogs is intentional. NANOWRIMO is coming, and I want to be ready. I want you, kind reader, to be ready too.
More to come . . .
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Posted on October 24, 2024
My friend A belongs to a local Rotary, and tonight it held an Octoberfest at the Secret Garden event venue in Benton Harbor. Given that my husband is half German, we planned to attend not knowing what to expect.
What a pleasant surprise! Several mutual friends of A and us also signed up. We put two tables together and chatted like old times. I say this, because old times are indeed old. We used to party as couples together in A’s home or S’s or even ours. But that’s no longer a locked-in tradition.
The food was exceptional, which is amazing since Rotary isn’t about cuisine. It’s about community involvement. But two members of Rotary lived in Germany for 15 years and were the “chefs” for this event. They did not disappoint.
We had bratwurst, special rolls, spaetzle and gravy, potato salad, beet salad, cucumber salad, sauerkraut, and pickles. If you weren’t full by then, there were cupcakes and cookies. In addition, the wine, beer, or soft drink was included in the price of the meal.
Did I mention the entire event cost $15 a person. I hope that this Rotary decides to do this annually, and I shall invite everyone to come. Earl and I shall be there too.
Just the antidote to election exhaustion!
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Posted on October 23, 2024
In the past few weeks, many Republicans who were involved as members of President Trump’s Cabinet, his Situation Room, or other prominent positions in the administration have gone on record as saying he is now unfit for office.
Today, it was retired U.S. Marine Corps general John Kelly’s turn; he has the distinction of being the longest serving White House chief of staff in the Trump era that ended almost four years ago. He is quoted in The New York Times as saying Trump admired Adolph Hitler back then and wanted the type of general Hitler commanded in World War II; that is, the type who gave allegiance to the Fuhrer over anything. Kelly claims Trump fits the definition of a fascist today.
I don’t know which Republican started saying Candidate Harris was a better alternative than Candidate Trump. Perhaps it was Dick Cheney or Mike Pence or any of the 40 former cabinet members who served under Trump who have gone on record that they are not voting for him. Maybe it was General Mike Milley.
Or in my own state of Michigan, maybe it was former House Representative Fred Upton, who chose not to run in 2022 after thirty years in office. He has announced he’s already voted for Harris.
Many people have praised those public figures who once were in Trump’s ranks with coming out against him. For me it feels like rats jumping ship. I mean: If some of their reasons are true for not backing the GOP nominee – and have been true since Mr. Trump was in office – what took them so long?
On another note, rapper Eminem and country music star Jason Aldean came out in support of The Donald.
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Posted on October 22, 2024
Election Day is two weeks away, although early voting has begun in many places. For the record, the first national election I covered in this blog was in 2004, exactly twenty years ago. If you want to read those blogs from that era go to this website, scroll down to the bottom of the page where you’ll find the Categories Archive, and click on 2004 Election.
Here is one of the posts, titled “Election Eve.”
Tonight is Election Eve, where everyone in our country will go to sleep under the current administration and wake up tomorrow ready to vote. Even the undecideds must climb down from the fence. Tomorrow night’s sleep may not be as restful, regardless of which candidate one voted for. There is too much in the balance.
Over the course of tomorrow night, I see a long siege of popular votes vs. electoral votes. I see another long siege of battleground states vs. the rest of us. I see anger and challenges and votes of the recorded and nonrecorded kind. What I don’t see is a country exercising its right to vote in the spirit in which democracy is intended. Things are too bitter.
When I was in school, I was taught that democracy was about respecting each person’s point of view; in the end, the candidate who received the most electoral votes won. We elected our officials by ballot and not by battleground. But what’s happened in recent years is that elections have been fraught with claims of chicanery, and the winner has not had a clear-cut mandate. As a country, we are so evenly divided that, regardless of who wins on Tuesday, it will be difficult to come together. If we don’t try, however, our definition of democracy will eventually become synonymous with chaos.
Scary, isn’t it?
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Posted on October 21, 2024
The Rocky Horror Show in its various iterations has been around since 1973 when it was a musical stage production with music, book, and lyrics by Richard O’Brien who wrote it to honor his love of science fiction and B horror movies of the era. Let it be noted that the show had a very brief run and even briefer reviews.
Still, over fifty years later, it’s a cult classic which a local community theatre, The Ghostlight, tackled for the second year in a row because the run sold out even before the show opened last year.
You can’t go to this production – or any production of Rocky – expecting anything other than chaos. The plot is complicated on paper and more complicated to follow in a two hour production. A naïve couple, recently engaged, ends up in a weird castle where Dr. Frank N. Furter holds court. In the end, the castle and many of its inhabitants are transported to another time and space, but not before there is a lot of hanky panky and double entrendre.
Ultimately, you go for the exuberance of the music and the campy involvement of the audience that is encouraged to come in costume, sing along, and wave lighted wands at specific moments.
And, yes, there is the Time Warp, that signature song where you: “jump to the left, and then a step to the right. Put your hands on your hips. You bring your knees in tight. But it’s the pelvic thrust that really drives you insane.”
I’ve seen “Rocky” twice, not because I’m an avid devotee of the show but because a family member was in it several years ago and I wanted to see how this local production compared to that one. Let me tell you, they were completely different. I guess that’s what time warp is really about.
I’m glad I saw both versions, but I have no desire to see the show again. So I won’t be joining the cult.
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Posted on October 20, 2024
I am not particularly offended by four letter words, even those words with five letters. Or six. At the same time, I think the people who use them demonstrate a certain mentality that lacks creative thinking. Unless the situation is one of extreme unexpected pain. Then all is forgiven.
But as a matter of regular discourse, using four letter words is insulting and demeaning, not only to the person who hears them but also to the person who uses them.
A and I had coffee yesterday and she said she’d noted how a certain candidate for president of the United States had taken to such language. Honestly, I hadn’t noticed; but then this morning I read a transcript from a reputable source of said candidate’s speech at a recent rally in Latrobe, PA. It was sprinkled liberally with potty mouth language on top of the usual catcalling of immigrants, people of color, and LGBTQ. One wonders if this approach suggests an increasing decline in mental capacity.
I’m not a psychiatrist or a neurologist or any other kind of ologist. But I don’t think it takes years of education to see that behavior has meaning. And the current behavior of a certain candidate suggests that he, like Biden, needs to find a way to exit, stage left.
Or perhaps the electorate with help him.
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Posted on October 19, 2024
While I’m in the mood, I’ll write another blog about gardening, a summer activity I’ve done fairly regularly for about 55 years. That’s long enough to learn a thing or two not only about plants but also about energy. Not the kind provided by good soil and appropriate rains, but the kind that the gardener contributes to the success of the season.
Years ago I didn’t know much about what plants were annuals or perennials, which ones like sun and which prefer shade, which need deadheading and which don’t. (The latter make life easier.) But through trial and error, and a good gardener friend named M, I learned a lot. M could make anything grow with the greatest of ease. He knew more than I did about such things, and I could have just hired him to work for me. Instead, I often worked alongside him and learned about potassium in the soil, remedies for invasive bugs, and how to trim a shrub.
A couple decades ago, M and I could work for hours planting, fertilizing, and watering. But time has caught up with us. I’m good for about an hour at a time, M a little more if I have a cold Coke®, the original, or two for him to drink.
Which means we have to adjust the way we garden to conserve energy – ours, that is. This fall, for instance, instead of taking a day or two back to back to remove all the annuals, the patio furniture, and the hoses, we’re doing it in smaller increments. We’re taking a Coke® break as a standard part of the project instead of gulping one as we rake.
I’m not sure what the next season will bring, but I am already beginning to think about how to streamline this activity we enjoy together. Maybe it’s fewer plants in the gardens or additional help or less attention to weeds.
One thing is certain, however. Neither M nor I will ever agree to plastic flowers for the sake of conserving energy.
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Posted on October 18, 2024
Every year there is an opportunity to honor autumn as trees change colors, pumpkins and gourds become abundant, and homeowners begin to squirrel away their hoses, pots, and patio furniture.
For some reason, this year seems more tranquil, the definition being “free from disturbance; calm” according to the Oxford Dictionary. The fountains that grace the pond we live on have ceased their tinkling noise; the sprinkler system is shut down; and I’m pulling out annuals at a steady pace.
As of today, when the various water systems were shut down, I am about 30 percent finished with pulling plants, weeding flower beds one more time, and planning for next year.
There wasn’t a cloud in the sky nor a breeze on the wing as I pulled vegetation and tilled the soil from whence they came. There wasn’t a noise within earshot, so I reveled in being in the garden and simply meditating. I hope if you’re a gardener and are shutting down for the winter that you felt the same way sometime in this process.
It’s a gift.
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